The inner drama was like a switch changing from 'content' to 'I want' and quickly, 'I lack'.  Not even that I did want very much, but once the switch was thrown all the repressed wanting was activated for every thing I've ever been denied.  And that force seems stronger than my will.  I can't choose 'abundance' then, no matter how many self-help books I've read in my life.  So I was watching that inner drama with more awareness than before.  And I didn't feel very good about it, or myself.

So I've been thinking about how I relate to people.  I want to relate to everyone with love, but SO OFTEN there is some situation of wanting.  Basically wanting love in some form.  Wanting to fit in, wanting to be liked, wanting to be approved of, successful.  I shoot myself in the foot that way, because then I get in my own way and am no service to others.  I'm really grieving this.  I want to find my power - in situations where it matters.  I like being in situations where I am the leader or the teacher or the hero somehow - then people give me power and I feel approved of and it's all good.  But I want to be able to feel my power in confrontive situations, when people don't like me.  That is when things can be transformed (and also when you can go acting like a fool and hurt others).  I want that for myself and instead I run up against my limits.

And so I've been living out the same drama that drives people to their God.  'I want' equals materialism, but it also equals thirst for God.  'I lack' calls for God to fill the space.  But not even God can fill 'I lack.'  Instead, we have to throw that switch back over to 'abundance.'

I have some power over that switch with myself.  If I remain conscious, I can remember the that I can indeed always choose how I respond to situations, which keeps me away from the 'I lack' setting.  But I have even more power with other people.  So long as my own tangles don't wrap me up, I can set up an emotional climate with the people around me that help them remember they are secure.  So I pray for help to do that as a leader.